How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 20.06.2025 00:04
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
How did Kate Mulgrew feel about Jeri Ryan joining the cast of Star Trek: Voyager?
Ask yourself:
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
What's a band that is really popular that you don't like? Why?
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
I have BPD. Why do I destroy everyone I love?
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Does not procrastinate.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Why do people think Mirko is boring in My Hero Academia?
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
What are some signs he is deeply in love with you?
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Why am I so jealous towards couples? Why am I tired of being single and feel my life is over?
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Making more friends is a goal.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
What's the most incredible coincidence that ever happened to you?
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
That's it for today.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
What I need from you?
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
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Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Procrastinates a lot.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Do not set goals—set systems.